Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew
on VH1
Episode Summary
WARNING: GRAPHIC CONTENT
Sexual addiction is a serious, and
growing, problem in America today. Many people’s lives are characterized by
aggressive, sometimes out-of-control, sexual behavior and a lack of genuine
emotional intimacy. Others see their relationships with spouses or others harmed
or even destroyed by an obsession with pornography or promiscuous sexual
behavior. Though there are many factors in our culture which contribute to this
problem, television’s fixation on sex certainly does nothing to ameliorate the
situation. From the nonstop barrage of sex jokes on sitcoms like CBS’s
Two and a Half Men, to the twisted sexual assualts presented on crime
dramas like NBC’s
Law & Order: SVU, to the emphasis on sex (now including
threesomes) on teen-targeted shows like CW’s
Gossip Girl, to the wildly extreme, even perverse, sexual behavior on
FX’s
Nip/Tuck, sex, sex, and more sex is the focus of a large, and
increasing, amount of television programming.
In such circumstances, it might be
thought commendable that a television program would address the problems which
can arise from sexual obsessions and compulsive behavior. Indeed, a show that
soberly and forthrightly documented the harm that such behavior can do to
individuals could potentially be a valuable aid to those who may be struggling
with these problems. Given the entertainment industry’s constant use of sex as a
punch line or the focus of stories, a useful, helpful and even welcome
counterweight could be provided by such a program.
VH1’s Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew
is not that program.
Premiering on November 1st
at 10:00 p.m. ET, Sex Rehab comes decked out with all the trappings of a
serious exploration of issues, including the presence of Dr. Drew Pinsky who,
through his appearances on other VH1 shows like Sober House and
Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew, has more or less become addiction expert to
the stars.
But in fact, Sex Rehab is just
another trashy reality show, with extreme individuals forced to cohabit while
they perform various “challenges,” ones in this case allegedly designed to heal
them of their past traumas. Dominatrix and
Internet pornography videographer Jennifer confesses, “I have a lot of sex on
camera. I’m pretty much incapable of caring about anybody I have sex with…At the
end of the night I’m going to ask you to leave. And if you stick around and try
to spoon me, I’ll [bleeped ‘f******’] knee you in the balls.” Professional
surfer James states, “I’ve lost my friends due to sleeping with their wives…I
can’t really think about anything” other than sex. James also admits that he has
masturbated to the point of injury and has an STD in his throat.
And so
it goes with the rest of the cast:
Playboy
Playmate Nicole admits to having masturbated 18 times in one day;
former porn star/stripper
Kendra fears losing her marriage due to her promiscuity; professional ” reality
TV star” (and Celebrity Rehab 2 and Sober House
alumna) Amber
admits to cruising for men daily;
while the show’s two
middle-aged male rehabbers, promiscuous rock musician Phil and Internet
pornography addict Duncan, both worry that their obsessions will never allow
them to form a real relationship. Most tragic of all, former
Miss Teen USA Kari
Ann tells Dr. Drew that she was sexually molested from age 5 to
7, raped when she was 14, and raped again at 17.
Clearly, many of those on Sex Rehab are
genuinely faced with deep emotional pain; yet VH1’s program treats these
real-life human tragedies as mere tabloid fodder, herding the individuals
together into one house as if the show were Big Brother, deliberately
placing them in provocative positions which encourage them to act badly. As
Entertainment Weekly notes, “Why NOT make a bunch of sex addicts live
together?...All these beautiful
people are expected to live together while fighting their urge to sleep with
other beautiful people, and these people who for the most part perform for a
living are supposed to ignore the cameras while doing this.”
The difficulties inherent in this situation are manifested when James remarks on
his fellow rehabbers, saying, "I’d have those girls naked, bent over my bed, I’d
be swan diving onto each one, side to side, licking every part of them…What are
they thinking, putting us here with these hot chicks?"
Crossed with the real temptations and
obstacles to recovery presented by the situation VH1 has established is the
show’s eagerness to titillate as much or more than it informs. Across the
opening credits and throughout the hour, viewers are barraged by signs reading
“girls girls girls” and “totally nude,”
clips showing strippers swinging on poles, prostitutes, and other “celebrities”
proclaiming themselves “sex addicts.”
Even the patients themselves are not
spared. A simple statement of her past difficulties and activities is necessary;
but need viewers see Jennifer, in full chrome and leather dominatrix gear,
flogging a naked man who wears a leather
pig mask? Do we have to watch her wave about a gigantic sex toy while stating it
is named after porn movie star Ron Jeremy?
Added to this are other reality-show staples,
such as a “coming this season” montage showing the patients hitting each other,
pulling hair, swearing and screaming things like, “I’m losing my [bleeped ‘f
******’] mind! I’m gonna cut your b**** off, b****!”
In such circumstances, it was difficult to avoid
noticing two of the program’s sponsors. In the midst of a show supposedly
devoted to helping individuals overcome sexual temptation, there blared out
commercials for both Trojan condoms and “Flirty Girl Fit,” an exercise program
in which women are encouraged to dance provocatively. The ad featured women
shaking their rears and twirling about on stripper poles (“Have a pole in your
own bedroom!”) as an announcer drooled over their “lean, tight, beautiful”
bodies. If VH1 had any taste, they would not run such commercials during a show
devoted to overcoming sexual obsession. But then, if VH1 had any taste, it would
not be airing Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew to begin with.
VH1 has built its “brand”
around minor celebrities suffering train wrecks of human interaction. From
Flavor of Love, to the endless series featuring Tiffany “New York” Pollard,
to Rock of Love, to too many more to recall, VH1 has devoted itself to a
“celebreality” format which capitalizes on the embarrassment and misery of
others. After the alleged murder/suicide involving Megan Wants a Millionaire
contestant Ryan Jenkins, VH1 pledged to avoid celebrities and pursue programming
with a more “redemptive” theme. "We really wanted to go with very real people
because we didn't want the celebrity issue to be a detraction," claimed VH1
vice-president
Jeff Olde. The reader may judge from Sex Rehab’s mix of Playboy
playmates, Sports Illustrated swimsuit models, and pornographic movie
actresses how faithfully VH1 is upholding its promise.
By
choosing such semi-celebrities as the show’s subjects, VH1 is not merely failing
in its stated goal of featuring “real people;” it is once again indulging in its
penchant for fourth-rate “celebreality.”
And naturally, like all of VH1’s crass
programming, the program is rerun at all hours of the day and night (including
noon on Sundays), where children and teens can easily see it.
Healing
from something as intimately devastating as sexual trauma is a process which
requires comfort, respect, security, and above all privacy – all elements
utterly lacking in a program that puts people’s shame and personal pain on
camera for all to see. Sex
Rehab claims to be helpful and
“redemptive,” but actually offers viewers the chance to salve their social
conscience while simultaneously indulging their darker temptations.
For during its back on the network’s
pledge of more “redemptive” programming, for its stomach-turning mixture of
teasing sexual titillation and crass exploitation of troubled individuals, and
for showing this program in hours where children have easy access to it, VH1’s
Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew is undeniably the Worst Cable TV Show of
the Week.
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