Americans Respect Fathers – But
TV Doesn’t
As part of a recent Harris poll
of on the subject of fatherhood, over 2500 adults were asked
which television father was their favorite. Americans ranked
Cliff Huxtable of The Cosby Show as their top choice
among American fathers as depicted on TV. The other top five
favorite choices, in order of preference, were Ward Cleaver of
Leave It to Beaver, Jim Anderson of Father Knows Best,
Andy Taylor of The Andy Griffith Show, and Ozzie Nelson
of The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet. Other fathers
named included Mike Brady of The Brady Bunch, Charles
Ingalls of Little House on the Prairie and Ben Cartwright
of Bonanza.
These
results are revealing in several ways. All of the fathers named
above were chosen from programs made or set in the 1980s or
earlier, when fathers (and families generally) were portrayed in
an upright fashion. Clearly, Americans respect their fathers,
and appreciate programming that presents them in a positive
light. That no fathers from contemporary programs were named
may be attributed to the fact that there are few programs today
which feature fathers and family settings -- and those that do
are almost uniformly mocking and negative. Consider the “father
figures” on programs like CBS’ Two and a Half Men, where
a whiny, incompetent single father tries to parent his son –
only to be outshone by the boy’s sex-crazed, promiscuous
brother; Fox’s Family Guy, with its dysfunctional father
and family; or, most insulting of all, American Dad, the
very title of which is a mockery of traditional fatherhood. Fox
recently reran an episode of this program which featured three
generations of men coming together – only for a father to reject
his own prison inmate father, who then takes his own
enthusiastic grandson along as he visits prostitutes. This is a
perfect example of the disdain the entertainment industry has
for families and fathers…proving once again that Hollywood is
out of step with the people it is supposedly trying to
entertain.